You get a book! And you get a book!

My bookish week in the PNW

This last week was filled with trading books from my bookshelves that I’ve already read (and that I’m not keeping as shelf trophies, IYKYK) out for new-to-me books from other readers’ collections!

Between a local event and Little Free Libraries, the theme of this week truly was just a good, old fashioned book swap.

This week I’m reading…

Our Perfect Storm by Carley Fortune

I’ve been listening to Our Perfect Storm on audio, and I am loving it! Two best friends who have been drifting apart decide to use her honeymoon to relax and reconnect after she is dumped the day before her wedding – what’s not to love about that? Friends to lovers, vacation romance, and lots of delicious food descriptions. I’m a happy camper!

Book Swap & Sip at Odd Otter Brewing

Mixing it up starting with the end of the week, but I have to jump in by talking about this super fun event!

People who know me out in the real world know that I’m not a beer girlie, so it may surprise some people to know that one of my favorite spots in Tacoma is this delightful, Otter-themed brewery.

And it’s become even more so recently, because they have really upped their game when it comes to hosting events – and especially bookish events! This week it was a book swap, complete with a local author signing and an amazing mobile bookstore that makes the rounds to events in the area.

The books up for trade…

I brought three books with me to contribute to the swap table in the back of the brewery, which definitely represent a wide variety of my book collection.

The first was The Ex Hex by Erin Sterling.

This is a book and a series that I LOVE, and absolutely still have shelf trophies of in my library, but I had an extra copy of this first book in the series.

(Shameless plug, but if you want to see my full thoughts on the book from when I read it around four years ago, you can take a look at my review here!)

The Four Dorothys by Paul Ruditis

This is a YA book that I read all the way back in junior high or high school – long before I forced my many book-thoughts on anyone but my mom. I remember enjoying it when I read it (I was a theater kid, so I was already biased in its favor), but it certainly wasn’t something that was foundational to my young life.

And despite that, it has been included on my shelves and moved from home to home since the time that I read it all those years ago. It was definitely time to let it find its place on a new bookshelf.

Hungry Hearts by Julie Hoag

This is one that I was gifted early on in my online reading journey, but it turned out that it wasn’t going to be the one for me.

I DNFed this book pretty early, and I kept it all these years in case I wanted to go back and give it another go – but that was starting to feel like the pair of jeans stuck in the back of the closet in case I can fit back into them one day.

While I’m not quite emotionally ready to let go of the old denim yet (one of these days those pre-pregnancy jeans just might come in handy, and who am I to risk not having them?), I’ve recently decided that there are too many amazing books in the world that I’ll never have the time to read. So I’m working on getting rid of the books that I’ll likely never go back to and make room for the next obsession or shelf trophy.

Now on to the rest of the fun!

After dropping my books off on the table for swapping, and having a few sips of a delicious beverage (it was mama’s night out, and I was going to enjoy it) my first stop was the mobile bookstore!

I have been following along with Lost the Plot ever since Ash, the owner, started posting content on TikTok about the behind the scenes of creating her mobile bookstore, focusing on adult fiction from under represented authors, from the ground up.

Ash is adorable, her videos are delightful, and truly, who among us hasn’t dreamed about quitting our daily life to open a bookstore? So it’s safe to say I was hooked from the very start, and I had just been waiting for the time that I could finally explore her little slice of heaven for myself!

While I didn’t let myself buy anything this time (since we’re on a budget, and I knew my next stop was going to get me), I had the most fun just getting to chat and look through the inventory. And believe me when I say that there are plenty of things that I’m keeping my eye on for next time she’s in my area.

Check out the Lost the Plot website here, to learn more about the bookstore and see where she’ll be popping up next!

And that brings me back to the excitement inside, with a signing table with local author NC Barton!

I had met NC before at a book fair earlier this year that was filled to the brim with local authors and bookish goodies, and she is just the sweetest! My mom (who went to that event with me) and I had a lovely time chatting with her, but when we were making our final rounds, we weren’t able to make it back to NC’s table to pick up the book that we had been eyeing.

So you know I had to get it this time around! It was like the book Goddesses were giving me another go, and I couldn’t disappoint them. Right?

It was so lovely getting to chat with NC again in a little bit calmer of an environment (I was there pretty early in the evening, so she had only just opened up her signing table), and I can’t wait to catch up with her again at the next event.

The book that I picked up was Meet Me at the Loch, which she was kind enough to sign for me! It is a Grumpy x Sunshine Celebrity romance set in a Scottish castle in the Highlands – so really, is there anything more you could want? I’m not sure there is.

You can purchase a copy of Meet Me at the Loch via Bookshop.org here, or check out the rest of what NC Barton has to offer on her website!

All in all it was a fabulous evening.

I got to chat with some of my online book friends, explore Lost the Plot, check out the Little Free Library onsite at Odd Otter (more on that later!), and walked away with four new to me books!

The books that I walked away with are…

Falling like Leaves by Misty Wilson

The book blurb describes this as “Gilmore Girls meets Jenny Han,” so you KNOW I had to grab it. A teen romcom about a city girl stuck in a small town, running into her post-glow up former best friend, during an annual fall festival that Stars Hollow would be proud of. Yes please.

Tangled Up in You by Christina Lauren

A part of the Meant to Be series where different authors take on the task of reimagining different Disney princess stories, this one (obviously) taking a turn on Rapunzel and Flynn’s story from Tangled. And Christina Lauren (best friends and writing partners, truly the dream) are some of my favorite authors for contemporary romance, so this has been on my list for quite a while! I was very excited to find it in the Little Free Library.

Vegetable Gardening in the Pacific Northwest by Lorene Edwards Forkner

This one is pretty self-explanatory, honestly. Since moving from an apartment to a house, I’ve had a dream of being one of those girls with a thriving back garden. One of my best friends has the DREAMIEST garden you’ve ever seen, with everything from delicious veggies to florals that I want to fill every one of my vases with, so the daydream only grows by the minute. And I thought this might be fun to add to my collection, to thumb through and try to get some tips to maybe keep up with her one of these days!

Little Free Library Week 2026

Okay, circling back around to the beginning of the week now.

Sunday, May 17th was the first ever Little Free Library Day, and kicked off Little Free Library week – a full week of celebrating these tiny book sharing spaces in communities all around us.

Little Free Libraries provide every person in their communities with 24/7 access to books and have programs in place to champion diverse books and reading.

I’m a huge fan of Little Free Libraries and have gone out of my way to visit tons of them over the years, both in my own community and passing through on road trips. Each LFL is different and unique, with so much life and personality put into them by the stewards that maintain them. I can’t wait for the day that I get to put together my own LFL – so I couldn’t pass up the opportunity to celebrate!

A snapshot of the Little Free Libraries that we visited!

I visited a few of these on my way to and from someplace else, and one was even onsite at Odd Otter! The rest were an outing all their own – baby girl and I spent an afternoon driving around exploring different neighborhoods and dropping off books as we went.

It was the best way to spend a quiet, sunny day.

In honor of the celebration, the folks behind the scenes even put together a bingo board that you could download and play all week long – while I didn’t quite get a full-board blackout, I had a lot of fun crossing some things off.

And two completed lines and three near misses isn’t too shabby, right?

Head to the Little Free Library website to learn more about it, and to look at the map to find your closest LFL!

I had a really terrific week finding new-to-me books and doing my own little library refresh.

Me to secondhand books:

(page and) Pine and Prejudice

My bookish week in the PNW

There was lots of book-related fun to be had in my neck of the PNW last week!

From date night with my partner to outings to share with baby girl – these were the perfect excuses to get out into the real world this week.

This is a new post style for me, a bit closer to the true-to-form blog post than I’ve explored in a while. The style and format may take shape and change here and there, but I’m hoping to add these more casual chats fairly regularly, even if it doesn’t end up being every week. Sometimes mom is busy, you know?

Right now my books are my time to turn my mom brain off. Sometimes these outings are an excuse to talk books with people older than a year old, and sometimes they’re an excuse for the baby and I to simply get out of the house. And while I’m pretty sure this section of my “brand,” for lack of a better term, is mostly just me talking to myself on the internet, I like the idea of celebrating those fun memories and breaks in routine.

And if I get to celebrate all of the fun events and local small businesses around me at the same time? Truly all the better.

This week I’m reading…

The Devil of Arden by R.H. Linehan

As soon as I saw the author describing this as Robin Hood x A Midsummer Night’s Dream, I knew that I absolutely had to read it. Throw in Autumn Equinox vibes and a slow burn romance filled with banter and sassy nicknames, and I am all over it.

Storytime at Page and Pine Books

On Thursday morning baby girl and I attended the cutest story time hosted by Page and Pine, an independent bookstore in Puyallup that we absolutely love.

It was themed around nursery rhymes and, together with a small group of kiddos and their grownups, we spent the morning reading and singing about speckled frogs and itsy-bitsy spiders.

This was such a lovely way to spend a morning! It was just a quiet, low-pressure event completely centered around reading and singing and letting the babies show off their newly found walking skills by wandering all around the bookstore.

Plus, all of the other kiddos were really close in age to my baby girl as well – while she does have lots of “cousins,” there is a pretty wide range of ages in the group. So any time there is a group this close in her age it always feels like such a treat. At least it does for me.

And, of course, girlie takes after me, so we couldn’t leave without picking something out to take home with us. We decided to grab the Five Little Speckled Frogs book that was a part of the story time, and she very excitedly read it again with my partner that night before bedtime.

The Music of Jane Austen with the Seattle Symphony

Throughout the course of my life, I truly believe that I have spent at least two cumulative years watching Jane Austen adaptations.

And I’m not even counting the retellings, although I would argue that Clueless and the first Bridget Jones are possibly perfect movies. Sorry, film bros.

I’m a sucker for a BBC mini-series of all varieties.

And both the 1995 and 2005 Pride and Pejudices (Prides and Prejudice? Pride and Prejudici?) are among the pillars holding up my entire personality.

Truly I can’t have any form of potato with dinner without internally complimenting a fair cousin for the exemplary vegetable; or even think about the existence of my birthday without contemplating my status as a) a burden to my parents, and b) frightened.

So when I saw that the Seattle Symphony was hosting a night dedicated to the music of the adaptations that bewitch me body and soul, I immediately knew that I wanted to go – and my partner was amazing enough to get us tickets for my birthday!

There were people dressed in their Bridgerton-best, there was onsite book shopping from Seattle romance favorite Beguiled Books, and there was even someone leading regency style dancing in the lobby that Emma Woodhouse would have approved of. It was an absolute dream.

And there were two more stars of the evening, in addition to the symphony.

The first is soprano Jane Eaglen who was featured in several songs throughout the evening, and whose name you might recognize from the soundtrack for the Sense and Sensibility movie from 1995 starring Emma Thompson and Kate Winslet. Y’all, she was incredible.

The second was the host of the evening, acting as a narrator and storyteller – Susannah Harker, miss Jane Bennet herself from the 1995 Pride and Prejudice. Are you kidding me? I lost my mind. I fangirled. I want her to narrate my life.

This was seriously the best night. The music was so amazing. The dancing was so much fun. I only wish I had realized people were going to show up in costume, because I absolutely could have obsessed over that for the couple of weeks leading up to it.

Audiobook Walk with the Tacoma Silent Book Club

Tacoma’s chapter of the Silent Book Club got together on Sunday morning at Titlow Park to take a walk and soak in the sunshine of an early PNW summer day.

I used this walk to finish up The Breakup Vacation by Anna Gracia on audio. I pulled this one out of my Libro.fm library because after all of the fantasy/romantasy and other slightly more intense reading I’ve been doing lately, I wanted something a bit light. Something that I wouldn’t have to think too hard about, and I could just listen and giggle and kick my metaphorical feet about the romance. This book was all of that and more, and I really enjoyed it!

After the walk the group found a spot on the grass in the park to sit and chat, and a couple of folks even brought some fun beverages – let me tell you, I will be much more prepared with some fun snacks and things for the next meeting!

As a socially awkward person who quickly fell out of practice at talking to people who aren’t my partner or my baby, a Silent Book Club is truly my dream come true. You have the opportunity to make friends and chat about books as much as you’d like to, but you can also just sit and read and simply share space. No pressure to read the same book and prepare talking points, and no pressure to socialize more than you’re prepared for.

All in all, this week was truly…

#SRC2020 End of Summer Pop-up Tour

Blog Tour: Courtesy of Booksparks

Thanks so much to the authors and publishers of these amazing books, as well as to Booksparks, for these complimentary finished copies in exchange for my honest thoughts and participation in this blog tour. { partner } All opinions are entirely my own. All of my reviews and tours can also be found on Instagram @Tackling_TBR and on Goodreads.

The Safe Place by Anna Downes

Check out my full review here!

Book Description from Goodreads:

Emily is a mess.

Emily Proudman just lost her acting agent, her job, and her apartment in one miserable day.

Emily is desperate.

Scott Denny, a successful and charismatic CEO, has a problem that neither his business acumen nor vast wealth can fix. Until he meets Emily.

Emily is perfect.

Scott offers Emily a summer job as a housekeeper on his remote, beautiful French estate. Enchanted by his lovely wife Nina, and his eccentric young daughter, Aurelia, Emily falls headlong into this oasis of wine-soaked days by the pool. But soon Emily realizes that Scott and Nina are hiding dangerous secrets, and if she doesn’t play along, the consequences could be deadly.

Superbly tense and oozing with atmosphere, Anna Downs’s debut is the perfect summer suspense, with the modern gothic feel of Ruth Ware and the morally complex family dynamics of Lisa Jewell.

Welcome to paradise…will you ever be able to leave?

About the Author (From Goodreads):

ANNA DOWNES was born and raised in Sheffield, UK, but now lives just north of Sydney, Australia with her husband and two children. She worked as an actress before turning her attention to writing. She was shortlisted for the Sydney Writers Room Short Story Prize (2017) and longlisted for the Margaret River Short Story Competition (2018).
The Safe Place was inspired by Anna’s experiences working as a live-in housekeeper on a remote French estate in 2009-10.

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Friends & Strangers by J. Courtney Sullivan

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Book Description from Goodreads:

An insightful, hilarious, and compulsively readable novel about a complicated friendship between two women who are at two very different stages in life, from the best-selling author of Maine and Saints for All Occasions (named one of the Washington Post‘s Ten Best Books of the Year and a New York Times Critics’ Pick).

Elisabeth, an accomplished journalist and new mother, is struggling to adjust to life in a small town after nearly twenty years in New York City. Alone in the house with her infant son all day (and awake with him much of the night), she feels uneasy, adrift. She neglects her work, losing untold hours to her Brooklyn moms’ Facebook group, her “influencer” sister’s Instagram feed, and text messages with the best friend she never sees anymore.

Enter Sam, a senior at the local women’s college, whom Elisabeth hires to babysit. Sam is struggling to decide between the path she’s always planned on and a romantic entanglement that threatens her ambition. She’s worried about student loan debt and what the future holds. In short order, they grow close. But when Sam finds an unlikely kindred spirit in Elisabeth’s father-in-law, the true differences between the women’s lives become starkly revealed and a betrayal has devastating consequences.

A masterful exploration of motherhood, power dynamics, and privilege in its many forms, Friends and Strangers reveals how a single year can shape the course of a life.

About the Author (from Goodreads):

J. Courtney Sullivan is the New York Times bestselling author of the novels Commencement, Maine, The Engagements, and Saints For All Occasions. Maine was named a Best Book of the Year by Time magazine, and a Washington Post Notable Book for 2011. The Engagements was one of People Magazine’s Top Ten Books of 2013 and an Irish Times Best Book of the Year. It is soon to be a major motion picture produced by Reese Witherspoon and distributed by Fox 2000, and it will be translated into 17 languages. Saints For All Occasions, was named one of the ten best books of the year by the Washington Post, a New York Times Critic’s Pick for 2017, and a New England Book Award nominee. Her fifth novel, Friends and Strangers, will be published in June 2020. Courtney’s writing has also appeared in The New York Times Book Review, The Chicago Tribune, New York magazine, Elle, Glamour, Allure, Real Simple, and O: The Oprah Magazine, among many others. She is a co-editor, with Courtney Martin, of the essay anthology Click: When We Knew We Were Feminists. In 2017, she wrote the forewords to new editions of two of her favorite children’s books: Anne of Green Gables and Little Women. A Massachusetts native, Courtney now lives in Brooklyn, New York with her husband and two children.

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The Wife Who Knew Too Much by Michele Campbell

Check out my full review here!

Book Description from Goodreads:

From Michele Campbell, the bestselling author of It’s Always the Husband comes a new blockbuster thriller in The Wife Who Knew Too Much.

Tabitha Girard had her heart broken years ago by Connor Ford. He was preppy and handsome. She was a pool girl at his country club. Their affair should have been a summer fling. But it meant everything to Tabitha.

Years later, Connor comes back into Tabitha’s life—older, richer, and desperately unhappy. He married for money, a wealthy, neurotic, controlling woman whom he never loved. He has always loved Tabitha.

When Connor’s wife Nina takes her own life, he’s free. He can finally be with Tabitha. Nina’s home, Windswept, can be theirs. It seems to be a perfect ending to a fairy tale romance that began so many years ago. But then, Tabitha finds a diary. “I’m writing this to raise an alarm in the event of my untimely death,” it begins. “If I die unexpectedly, it was foul play, and Connor was behind it. Connor—and her.”

Who is Connor Ford? Why did he marry Nina? Is Tabitha his true love, or a convenient affair? As the police investigate Nina’s death, is she a convenient suspect?

As Tabitha is drawn deeper into the dark glamour of a life she is ill-prepared for, it becomes clear to her that what a wife knows can kill her.

About the Author (from Goodreads):

Michele Campbell is a graduate of Harvard College and Stanford Law School and a former federal prosecutor in New York City who specialized in international narcotics and gang cases.

A while back, she said goodbye to her big-city legal career and moved with her husband and two children to an idyllic New England college town a lot like Belle River in IT’S ALWAYS THE HUSBAND. Since then, she has spent her time teaching criminal and constitutional law and writing novels.

She’s had many close female friends, a few frenemies, and only one husband, who – to the best of her knowledge – has never tried to kill her.

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A Star Is Bored by Byron Lane

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Book Description from Goodreads:

A hilariously heartfelt novel about living life at full force, and discovering family when you least expect it, influenced in part by the author’s time as Carrie Fisher’s beloved assistant.

Charlie Besson is about to have an insane job interview. His car is idling, like his life, outside the Hollywood mansion of Kathi Kannon. THE Kathi Kannon, star of stage and screen and People magazine’s worst dressed list. She needs an assistant. He needs a hero.

Kathi is an icon, bestselling author, and an award winning actress, most known for her role as Priestess Talara in the iconic blockbuster sci-fi film. She’s also known for another role: crazy Hollywood royalty. Admittedly so. Famously so. Fabulously so.

Charlie gets the job, and embarks on an odyssey filled with late night shopping sprees, last minute trips to see the aurora borealis, and an initiation to that most sacred of Hollywood tribes: the personal assistant. But Kathi becomes much more than a boss, and as their friendship grows, Charlie must make a choice. Will he always be on the sidelines of life, assisting the great forces that be, or can he step into his own leading role?

Laugh-out-loud funny, and searingly poignant, Byron Lane’s A Star is Bored is a novel that, like the star at its center, is enchanting and joyous, heartbreaking and hopeful.

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Pizza Girl by Jean Kyoung Frazier

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Book Description (from Goodreads):

In the tradition of audacious and wryly funny novels like The Idiot and Convenience Store Woman comes the wildly original coming-of-age story of a pregnant pizza delivery girl who becomes obsessed with one of her customers.

Eighteen years old, pregnant, and working as a pizza delivery girl in suburban Los Angeles, our charmingly dysfunctional heroine is deeply lost and in complete denial about it all. She’s grieving the death of her father (who she has more in common with than she’d like to admit), avoiding her supportive mom and loving boyfriend, and flagrantly ignoring her future.

Her world is further upended when she becomes obsessed with Jenny, a stay-at-home mother new to the neighborhood, who comes to depend on weekly deliveries of pickled covered pizzas for her son’s happiness. As one woman looks toward motherhood and the other towards middle age, the relationship between the two begins to blur in strange, complicated, and ultimately heartbreaking ways.

Bold, tender, propulsive, and unexpected in countless ways, Jean Kyoung Frazier’s Pizza Girl is a moving and funny portrait of a flawed, unforgettable young woman as she tries to find her place in the world.

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The Vanishing Sky by L. Annette Binder

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Book Description from Goodreads:

For readers of Warlight and The Invisible Bridge, an intimate, harrowing story about a family of German citizens during World War II.

In 1945, as the war in Germany nears its violent end, the Huber family is not yet free of its dangers or its insidious demands. Etta, a mother from a small, rural town, has two sons serving their home country: her elder, Max, on the Eastern front, and her younger, Georg, at a school for Hitler Youth. When Max returns from the front, Etta quickly realizes that something is not right-he is thin, almost ghostly, and behaving very strangely. Etta strives to protect him from the Nazi rule, even as her husband, Josef, becomes more nationalistic and impervious to Max’s condition. Meanwhile, miles away, her younger son Georg has taken his fate into his own hands, deserting his young class of battle-bound soldiers to set off on a long and perilous journey home.

The Vanishing Sky is a World War II novel as seen through a German lens, a story of the irreparable damage of war on the home front, and one family’s participation-involuntary, unseen, or direct-in a dangerous regime. Drawing inspiration from her own father’s time in the Hitler Youth, L. Annette Binder has crafted a spellbinding novel about the daring choices we make for country and for family.

About the Author (from Goodreads):

L. Annette Binder was born in Germany and grew up in Colorado Springs.

Her first novel The Vanishing Sky (Bloomsbury, July 2020) is inspired by events in her own family history.

Her story collection Rise came out in 2012. Her short stories have been included in the Pushcart Prize anthology and the PEN/O. Henry Prize anthology and have been performed on Public Radio’s “Selected Shorts.”

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The Lost Girls of Devon by Barbara O’Neal

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Book Description from Goodreads:

From the Washington Post and Amazon Charts bestselling author of When We Believed in Mermaids comes a story of four generations of women grappling with family betrayals and long-buried secrets.

It’s been years since Zoe Fairchild has been to the small Devon village of her birth, but the wounds she suffered there still ache. When she learns that her old friend and grandmother’s caretaker has gone missing, Zoe and her fifteen-year-old daughter return to England to help.

Zoe dreads seeing her estranged mother, who left when Zoe was seven to travel the world. As the four generations of women reunite, the emotional pain of the past is awakened. And to complicate matters further, Zoe must also confront the ex-boyfriend she betrayed many years before.

Anxieties spike when tragedy befalls another woman in the village. As the mystery turns more sinister, new grief melds with old betrayal. Now the four Fairchild women will be tested in ways they couldn’t imagine as they contend with dangers within and without, desperate to heal themselves and their relationships with each other.

About the Author (from Goodreads):

Barbara O’Neal is the Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, and #1 Amazon Charts bestselling writer of women’s fiction. She lives in Colorado with her partner, a British endurance athlete.

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New US Giveaway!

Giveaway posted to Instagram on July 28 at 12:00noon

Struggling to finish up with your #SummerTBR? Well allow me to be of assistance! To thank all of my old and new friends and followers, one winner will receive one surprise book from their TBR list, and another goodie or two!

To enter, go on over to my Instagram post (linked below) and follow the following steps :

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Let’s Talk About: Travels

Ebooks, audiobooks, & reading on the road

Life is full of tons of big changes, busy times, and some times that your brain feels enough like mush that just the thought of reading makes you tired. And sometimes reading just doesn’t, or can’t, realistically happen.

I know what you may be thinking, “No, but Jennifer, you’re a reader like me. Reading is a stress reliever for people like us. The book worms, and the introverts, we always have time to read and it makes us feel better.” Yes, often times that is true. I absolutely love to read, obviously, otherwise I wouldn’t be here. And reading, getting lost in these other worlds or learning about my own, it always feels like the right thing to do with my time.

Except for when it doesn’t.

Real talk time. My fiancé and I just moved from Washington State all the way to Texas, road tripping across states and time zones, and the move was intense. It was wonderful and everything that we had been looking for, but in a lot of ways it was also one of the biggest changes and most stressful times so far in my life – the seven day road trip, getting furniture up and down all of the stairs, figuring out how to fly with a cat! (Let me tell you, not the easiest part of the trip.)

So how do you read? And when? While you’re paused on the road and visiting with family? When you’re in the car being co-pilot? Or at the end of the day when you’re dead tired and all you want to do is curl up in a bed, any bed, and get about 2 weeks of sleep?

Sure, sometimes you get 10 minutes to read with sunshine (and adorable reading buddies) while visiting your in-laws. But those 10 minutes are never long enough.

Sometimes the answer is simply this – you don’t. And sometimes that is the exact right answer.

For me, I got very little reading done while we were in transition this last month and a half. I only finished a total of two books in that entire time. And even the two books that I did finish didn’t actually get reviewed until almost a month later. I was feeling like I was slacking, like I wasn’t getting anything done, and like I was wasting the little spare time that I did have.

And then I reminded myself, and my amazing fiancé constantly reminded me, of one important thing – this is what I do for fun. And to relax. When I am stressed, or upset, or don’t like the world around me, I read. And forcing myself to do something that I love when I don’t have the energy or the brain power to enjoy it to it’s fullest, wouldn’t be fair to myself or the books that I brought. And trust me, I brought a lot of books. Like, we’re talking an entire carry on full of books. I wish I was kidding. It was very heavy.

So here is what I did. When I had an hour or so that I knew I could take for myself and relaxing, I read one of my buddy read books on my kindle. Other times, in between albums and podcasts and some naps, we listened to an audiobook while in the car. And we stopped at a lot of Little Free Libraries along the way, when we needed to stop the car and stretch our legs anyway it was a great and bookish excuse to do so. And I got myself to feel alright with the fact that I would only read two books, and not put nearly the dent in my famous TBR list that I thought that I would.

So, for anyone out there, my advice would be this. If you are travelling, or moving, or just spending your time being stressed and busy, remember this – remember why you love to read, and don’t read for any other reasons. Don’t make your stress worse by creating false deadlines for yourself, it’ll make this thing that you love feel like work.

So during your travels research a Little Free Library or two, stock up on those audio books, and give yourself and the books the time that you deserve. And seriously, don’t fill a carry on full of physical books. Just take my word. Your back will thank me later.